Showing posts with label fearful dog. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fearful dog. Show all posts

Thursday, 19 July 2018

Jets, sheep and grouse - oh my!

or What happened on my holidays, and why I love resilience


Hello!

Well that was an exciting holiday week to say the least.  Wales was beautiful of course, and the hills were satisfyingly high.

I hadn’t bargained on the level of distractions at the “idyllic” cottage though.

  • Grouse breeding pen in the garden
  • No secure boundary (three exits, two leading onto roads)
  • Randomly increasing numbers of ewes and lambs appearing in the garden (7 on the last day)
  • Mach loop flight path (half hourly low-level flyovers from 9am into the night)

And for context, we already knew it might be a challenging week since it was the first time everyone in our group had been on holiday since all the additions. Our party had a total of 8 adults, one baby and five dogs (baby and two of the dogs are new). 

What did I learn from my holiday?

That my dogs are bloody amazing. And I probably don’t give them enough credit. 

Yes I was sensible, and they were largely on leash in the garden but certainly not all of the time. 

My beasts coped beautifully with Ellie the baby (Laird and Ellie are rather smitten with each other), no one chased anything, and Freya barely flinched at the jets!

We did have a bit more bad luck on the narrow roads requiring an emergency stop (blind bend with road works and a red light but no prior warning). Freya was understandably upset, but she recovered after a day or so – which is amazing given what she’s had to deal with in the last year.

The secret to our success?

Resilience.

The ability to bounce back and cope even in difficult situations.

Freya’s resilience is hard won – we’ve had to work damn hard with training, confidence building and drugs to support her.

Laird on the other hand seems to have the benefit of a super solid temperament from both his genetics and early life. He really is one of the easiest dogs I’ve ever lived with despite the black eyes and adventurous eating habits…

And that made me think of the lovely people who have just booked a phone session with Clare. They want to find the right puppy for their family, and they’ve asked us to help them!

If you’re thinking about adding a puppy or a rescue dog to your family, or you have a family member who might - why not talk to us before you fall in love. Get expert advice on what to look for, and the red flags to run away from.

It’s okay to have a wish list for your next dog, so long as it’s realistic. The perfect dog (or human!) simply doesn’t exist. But you can stack the odds in your favour if we help you to sift through the pages of possible second chance dogs, and resist the new puppy smell when you meet a whole litter of adorable puddings.

I met several potential dogs before I brought Laird home. I’m not just lucky that he is amazing, I had a clear idea of the essential characteristics needed to enjoy living with me. 

Book your “new family member” chat with Clare and start off in harmony: booking link

What’s going on in WCC Land?

Quite honestly what’s not – we’re back from our holidays and super motivated to spread the word about positive training and awesome relationships.


  • Helpful Hounds (Sun 21st Oct) – a foundation workshop to teach your pooch the skills of an assistance dog


  • Dog Training Fundamentals  - 29th & 30th September - a practical weekend for anyone interested in learning more about effective teaching methods for people AND dogs.
  • Teaching with Confidence - 17th & 18th November - understand how to create successful learning experiences for both humans and dogs in a class environment. Plenty of practical teaching and videoed feedback sessions


Webinar programmes

  • Deaf dogs – from getting started with recall to dealing with aggression and shadow chasing (starting 31st July)


PS The winner of our impromptu competition from the last email/blog was Alex with Super Cooper. They were the first to reply with Pink Floyd’s “Another Brick in the Wall” and have won a tennis ball bungee tug toy!


Wednesday, 21 February 2018

Rehab Club Brags (Feb 2018) and what "doing nothing" might mean



February's rehab club was all about slow motion movement and observations. We worked fairly close up with everyone around people and dogs, and we tried to see all the small communications.

Question of the day:  what are our dogs telling us when they stop wanting to play Look At That or Engage/Disengage games? 

If your dog is keen on food (and all of ours were) then when they STOP looking at the other dog in exchange for treats there's going to be a reason for it...

  • it could be boredom  but it's not usually
  • it might be they'd like to move away, the session has lasted long enough
  • it could even be that our dog is feeling threatened or worried

Even when you think your dog "isn't doing anything" they probably are... does your dog slow down, hesitate, turn away.

If we're moving too quickly towards the other person or dog, then you might miss your dog pausing. Also watch for your dog conveniently crossing in front of you, blocking your path. Again this is communication.

Why do we want to do things slowly?

Partly so we don't miss the important but small things

Mostly because slow, careful experiences give our dogs space to think, consider and react thoughtfully.

"strong emotions make us (and our dogs) stupid"

Exciting news - we WILL be offering an extra weekday rehab session once a month on a Tuesday afternoon. We've chosen the day that worked for the majority of you, but we know it won't be perfect for everyone!

First weekday rehab sessions: Tues 13th March 2pm, then Tues 24th April at 2pm



To book on please email Laura initially (we'll have a new booking system running shortly) on info@wellconnectedcanine.co.uk

Want to know more about rehab club, and get specific tips and hints to help? Sign up to our rehab specific list here! Rehab Club List



 

Tuesday, 30 January 2018

Rehab Club brags from January 2018 (Silence is golden)



Silence is golden

Standing quietly, watching two dogs move around calmly and check in with their humans for support and praise.

For us, that’s the stuff of smothered cheers. Silent celebrations, and huge grins.

Sometimes life is all too hectic and we miss the chance to slow down and really watch our dogs.

If your dog tends to react to other dogs by barking, lunging or screaming then you probably have reflexes like a steel spring.


When was the last time your “reactive” dog could just hang around and watch another dog safely?

Rehab Club is our special wee bubble where we make the real world more predictable. You can relax and feel safe enough to let your dog make their own choices.

You might even be surprised by the progress you have made without realising – just like our amazing January group!

January Brags

Janey (GSD) and Elsie (Staffie cross) successfully walked on relaxed short leads, practiced approaching, passing each other and making awesome choices.

Mabli (staffie) learned how to get closer to other dogs and people without losing her mind to excitement.

And Bounce (Shipperke) practiced relaxing around young, bouncy dogs in a safe space where no-one was running over or threatening him.















Clare and I are SO very proud of all the hard work these folk put in, and we love seeing it pay off. We’ve promised to start filming the sessions so we can show just how big these changes are!

Want to experience that blissful calmness with your dog?

You need to have started a behaviour package with Well Connected Canine, want more chances to practice and be ready to work with a super supportive group of people!  Drop us an email to info@wellconnectedcanine.co.uk to check for spaces on Sunday 18th February (venue near South Cave).

There are just four places available each month so don’t delay!

Enjoy those silences

Morag and Clare